• Greetings from Newport


    A very good friend of mine passed this postcard along to me after my recent visit to The Breakers. Sent only 18 years after the mansion was completed, the Jamestown postmark reveals it’s nearly a century old. The postcard announces The Breakers as the “residence of Countess Széchényi”. By1913, that was certainly the case. Countess Széchényi (née Gladys Vanderbilt) was the Vanderbilt’s youngest daughter. Though she died in 1965, her daughter, Countess Sylvia Szapáry, maintained residence at her grandparent’s summer “cottage”, The Breakers, until March 1, 1998.

    Aug 31, 2011 | Permalink (3) View/Leave Comments

    RobertCH left a comment on 9/12/2011 at 4:16 PM:

    Gladys and Paul Szapary, Sylvia’s children, still occupy the private 3rd floor of the house and own all the content on display at the Breakers.

    Tim left a comment on 9/4/2011 at 7:13 PM:

    Very Nice.  I love finding things like this.  I would give anything to live in that time instead of in our time.  Nice post

    Jim Kelleth left a comment on 9/4/2011 at 6:27 AM:

    Seeing ‘R.F.D.’ on this card takes me back to Jamestown in the ‘50s and early ‘60s (summers).  To make a call, you picked up the phone, the operator said, “Number please” and you gave her the three digit number.  Thanks.


  • Confidence in Khaki

    Prep Essentials  

    A man can run around in chinos from the moment he learns to walk to the day he is crawling again and never look better. The 100% cotton fabric is the prep’s security blanket of choice, only improving and ingratiating with wear. Lisa Birnbach goes as far to say, “A frayed chino cuff is the pant equivalent of a trusted friend.” But what about women? Does the attraction to this fabric born of the sword exhibit the same gravitational pull on them? Not exactly. By design, chinos lack a feminine sensibility; however, that doesn’t mean you can’t feel sexy in a pair. Christy Turlington shows just how charming one can be in the iconic trouser. It just takes confidence.

    Image via Peter Lindbergh

    While there are a variety of ways to wear chinos, keep them hitting around the ankles and you’re golden. Whether you wear anything else with them, well that’s your business.

    Aug 30, 2011 | Permalink (10) View/Leave Comments

    scaleworm left a comment on 1/31/2013 at 1:20 AM:

    What a beautiful woman, and terrific timeless shot.
    i LOVE B&W.

    craig trevor left a comment on 11/17/2011 at 12:49 AM:

    She would make anything look amazing, true. but a good pair of khaki chino’s is a special thing. In a day and age where people think wearing jeans is preppy, it is good to see that twill!

    RkeithD left a comment on 9/3/2011 at 12:31 AM:

    I realize saying Dockers will immediately turn off most… But the new Alpha Khaki is a modern and slim fit I love.  Highly rec a try.

    SW left a comment on 9/3/2011 at 12:06 AM:

    After that image I am supposed to write something that makes sense? I miss the old-school super models.

    Tim left a comment on 9/2/2011 at 11:55 PM:

    Thats exactly how I wear mine on a daily basis too!

    Joy left a comment on 9/2/2011 at 7:25 PM:

    I wish they would make skinny chinos. Blasphemous or not but I want to look 18 (my actual age) and not 40 dammit.

    RowBoat left a comment on 9/2/2011 at 6:34 PM:

    For years my profession forced me to wear khakis which lead me to develop a very poor opinion of them (who want to be forced to do anything?). Christy Turlington can pull of anything but us mortals aren’t always as lucky. I full heartily agree, to pull of khakis you must find a pair that suit your body type, preferably that helps the “buttock hugging glory” but under NO circumstances gives one ‘camel toe’.

    Luckily my forced khaki wearing days are over. We’ve reconciled (slightly) but I still prefer the ever classic shift dress/cardigan combo.

    Laguna Beach Fogey left a comment on 9/2/2011 at 6:21 PM:

    When I think chinos I think khakis, which bring to mind 70-year old guys wearing stained khakis, OCBD shirts, and fat white sneakers.

    Chinos in colours other than khaki?

    Yes, definitely.

    Let’s face it, Turlington would look good in anything. For what it’s worth, I’ve observed women wearing khaki trousers in all their tight buttock-hugging glory. And of course we’ve all seen women in snug tan jodphurs, which aren’t khakis strictly speaking, but you get the idea.

    nick left a comment on 9/2/2011 at 4:30 PM:

    Yeah, more ladies should wear them like her.

    trip left a comment on 9/2/2011 at 4:29 PM:

    Yeah, more girls should really give this outfit a try.


  • Just You & Me, Kid

    Dress Code  

    As a father of two boys nearly 16 months apart, I am rarely afforded the opportunity to spend time with them individually. I believe that is an important aspect to parenting—one-on-one time with each child. Their identity shouldn’t always be wrapped up in birth order. Sometimes I want my sons to simply feel like they each have my undivided attention...to genuinely feel I care about what’s going on in their little world. Jonah—my youngest—and I did just that last weekend in bonding over burgers, bowling a couple of frames, and hitting up a Rangers ballgame. We capped it off my shooting some photographs for his mom. Of course, I had to get a father & son shot.

    Noteworthy: (me) Spexclub tortoise shell eyeglasses, Kiel James Patrick sailing belt, Rugby fisherman sweater, Smart Turnout watchstrap; (Jonah) cotton/linen Pochette Square pocket hanky (as he calls them), denim jacket.

    Aug 29, 2011 | Permalink (26) View/Leave Comments

    montezemolostore.com left a comment on 12/22/2011 at 1:52 AM:

    The comaprison between adult and kid’s fashion style is always a good idea by a communciation point of view… ;)

    Ann left a comment on 11/23/2011 at 9:56 AM:

    So darling, you have two lucky little men.

    Angela Duke left a comment on 9/17/2011 at 11:44 AM:

    It’s a lot easier to admire talented people when they are a great example of having priorities in order! Style + substance gets you everywhere. Love this photo.

    Bevin Elias left a comment on 9/5/2011 at 8:41 PM:

    this amazing, one of my favorite posts, he takes the best dressed award.

    pansmom left a comment on 9/5/2011 at 8:26 PM:

    How precious.

    Elizabeth left a comment on 9/3/2011 at 2:14 AM:

    Looking good, the both of you!

    Jens left a comment on 9/2/2011 at 6:57 PM:

    Nice picture.

    Mark left a comment on 9/2/2011 at 12:40 PM:

    Hey F.E.

    Just wanted you to know, that I’ve posted a link to your site on my tumblr…

    Best regards..

    Mathias Knutsson left a comment on 9/2/2011 at 10:10 AM:

    Great pictures! I must compliment you for both your style and an excellent website. And as a father of four, I couldn`t agree more: It is so important to have one-on-one time with your children.

    John left a comment on 9/1/2011 at 6:41 PM:

    Off topic, but I noticed that you don’t have “The Rake” in your study, why is that? Also next weekend I will be attending a polo match here in my neck of the woods, email me if you would like me to send you some usable photos.

    Joey Dee left a comment on 9/1/2011 at 4:22 PM:

    great photo. I hope to see more styling ideas for dressing kids in the future! just placed a rugby order in which i got that same sweater as a gift for a friend, i may keep it for myself now, seeing how well it fits!

    Jason left a comment on 9/1/2011 at 1:31 PM:

    Awesome little story on fatherhood

    Caroline Fontenot left a comment on 9/1/2011 at 11:48 AM:

    This is just amazing.

    Sole Porn left a comment on 9/1/2011 at 11:46 AM:

    Love your son’s bucks….great picture, Fred!

    Christian Bourasseau left a comment on 9/1/2011 at 11:13 AM:

    Beautiful picture Fred!

    dam left a comment on 9/1/2011 at 10:17 AM:

    great shot, Fred!

    F.E. Castleberry left a comment on 9/1/2011 at 9:55 AM:

    @Nic—I have not been married since 2005.

    Nic left a comment on 9/1/2011 at 9:24 AM:

    @FEC I haven’t seen a picture of your wife on the blog, will she be making an appearance at all?

    AEV left a comment on 9/1/2011 at 9:01 AM:

    Cool pic…I also dig the sweater (though I don’t care for the manufactured/faux ‘wear’)...

    cam left a comment on 8/31/2011 at 11:47 PM:

    i’ll co-sign on the chinos from rugby. best fit by far. so good in fact i own 5 pair!

    F.E. Castleberry left a comment on 8/31/2011 at 11:04 PM:

    @Brad—My chinos are from Rugby.

    Brad left a comment on 8/31/2011 at 11:02 PM:

    I love the fit of the navy chinos you’re wearing.  Where are they from?

    F.E. Castleberry left a comment on 8/31/2011 at 10:14 PM:

    @Levi—I am 30.

    @Desmond K—The sun faded patina of the sweater was designed this way by the guys at Rugby.  It looks and feels like it was unearthed in the attic.

    levi left a comment on 8/31/2011 at 9:48 PM:

    A very nice picture.  May I ask how old you are?

    Tito left a comment on 8/31/2011 at 8:15 PM:

    This photograph with your son is awesome!
    I miss my father every day. keep been a good father Fred cause parenting is very limited nowadays.

    Desmond K left a comment on 8/31/2011 at 5:50 PM:

    Is that natural distressing on the sweater or was it purchased that way? Either way its spot on (but way cooler if it was natural).


  • Samberg vs. McEnroe, Connors, Borg & More


    On the cusp of this year’s US Open, The New York Times Magazine asked Walter Iooss Jr. (legendary sports photographer) and comedian Andy Samberg to look back at several iconic men’s tennis rivalries. Andre Agassi vs. Pete Sampras, John McEnroe vs. Bjorn Borg, and Jimmy Connors vs. McEnroe are all done comedic justice. Not only was the level of play to be admired, the on court style was too (ignore Agassi for all intents and purposes). The New York Times meticulously dug into the archives of Nike, Fila, and Tacchini for the authentic tennis whites. The result fiercely rivals the best Will Ferrell sports comedies—save Semi-Pro, that was just bad. The piéce de résistance? Pistol Pete’s carpet of a chest.

    Game, set, match.

    Images via Walter Iooss Jr.

    Aug 26, 2011 | Permalink (6) View/Leave Comments

    Todd left a comment on 12/9/2011 at 1:02 PM:

    Love “McEnroe’s” classic Nike’s…  had a pair just like’em back in the day - couldn’t play tennis worth a damn - still can’t play tennis worth a damn!

    Carlos left a comment on 9/7/2011 at 1:43 AM:

    Can someone please tell me how do you put pictures in sequence like this?

    GBourgeaiseau left a comment on 9/3/2011 at 7:32 PM:

    Nice post. All the best!

    Andy M. left a comment on 8/31/2011 at 11:11 AM:

    Samberg can do no wrong.  Genius!

    Clay left a comment on 8/31/2011 at 10:02 AM:

    That is AMAZING.  The poses are smack-on.  He does McEnroe better than McEnroe.  Thanks F.E. for a big laugh!

    David left a comment on 8/31/2011 at 9:47 AM:

    Bring back wooden tennis rackets! The game would be so much better.


  • US Open Tennis Championships 2011

    Style | Dress Code | Sports  

    The 130th US Open is upon us. More than 600 professional tennis players from around the world will descend upon New York’s Arthur Ashe Stadium over the next few days (hurricane permitting)—the winners take home a cool 1.8 million in cash. Novak Djokovic is the overwhelming favorite. At 57-2 on the year, he is the force to be reckoned with.

    I’m pulling for Mardy Fish. What?—I’m patriotic.

    Sporting events have a dogged reputation for being sartorially handicapped until Ralph Lauren decides to outfit them (i.e. Wimbledon, the Olympics, PGA Tour). The US Open is Lauren’s most recent proselyte. Since I’ll be at The Harriman Cup polo match during the final, I’m pulling on my lucky cable-knit cricket vest in hopes Fish goes deep. And the go-to-hell blazer? I plan on taking ‘best outfit’ at the match this year. Yes, it’s louder than Sharapova’s primal screams, but, that’s the point.

    Noteworthy: patchwork madras blazer, cordovan tassel loafer, cotton/linen square by Pochette Square, Polo Tennis cotton-cashmere cricket vest.

    Aug 25, 2011 | Permalink (37) View/Leave Comments

    Michelle S left a comment on 12/17/2012 at 5:58 PM:

    Tim.  I NEVER watch polo.  I am too busy catching up with everyone under the sponsors pavilion.  Polo is much less boring when you bring friends and tailgate.  Start simple and soon, you too will have your own engraved flask and a story about the time James and Beckett were over served and ended up behind the barn.

    paolo left a comment on 4/12/2012 at 7:03 AM:

    what is the make of the patchwork madras blazer?

    fashionstyle left a comment on 9/21/2011 at 9:55 PM:

    the designs are very beautiful, very stylish.

    Jon left a comment on 9/1/2011 at 11:34 PM:

    The writing in this post is strikingly adroit.  Kudos!

    Nic left a comment on 8/31/2011 at 9:14 AM:

    @Desmond - Quite correct.

    @FEC Regarding the outfit, I do not take issue with any single piece contained therein. What I do take issue with in my initial comment was the “trying to hard” impression given off by pairing the cricket jumper and madras blazer together. But to each their own.

    Chens left a comment on 8/30/2011 at 6:30 PM:

    Tom Wolfe is the one who coined the term “go to hell” to describe the clothes of Boston WASPs gathering on Martha’s Vineyard. While it’s impossible to know precisely what he was thinking when he coined that phrase, knowing his literary style I think that basically what he was trying to convey is “garish.”

    As the phrase caught on in the digital menswear realm, it’s meaning has gotten murkier, causing people to think that flamboyant items are worn as an arrogant effront to others.

    The attitude behind go-to-hell clothing isn’t one of telling others who belong to some sort of “social norm” to go to hell (i.e. “screw you”). The clothes were originally worn by WASP tribe members among their own kind in social settings (golf course, country club, school dance); they were not something a guy wore alone to distinguish himself from the masses.

    Fred is right to wear such an outfit at a festive occasion such as a polo match. But the idea of donning patch madras to “push back against social norms” is nuts, according to the context of go-to-hell clothes Wolfe originally described.

    No group of people is more conformist than WASPs and preppies, no matter what they’re wearing.

    Hannah left a comment on 8/30/2011 at 2:06 PM:

    Love your madras blazer! I just bought a madras skirt, and I wish I could wear it every day. You can see how I styled it here: chillairandperfume.blogspot.com

    F.E. Castleberry left a comment on 8/30/2011 at 12:22 PM:

    @IgnaciO—You’re understanding of “go-to-hell” is incorrect. It’s correct meaning is in fact what you stated yourself below. “I am wearing this patchwork madras blazer because I like it—if you don’t, go-to-hell.” The attitude is about not caring what others think when pushing back against a social norm.

    tony left a comment on 8/30/2011 at 10:16 AM:

    The outfit fits the situation. It looks fine. What’s worse, this outfit or someone dressing like their match is next, wristbands and all?

    IgnaciO left a comment on 8/30/2011 at 9:44 AM:

    I despise the whole “go to hell” label because it infers that I am wearing something to tell someone to go to hell. I am wearing those red cords or bright blazer because I love the colors, not because I am trying to make a statement.

    AEV left a comment on 8/29/2011 at 10:05 PM:

    @FEC - As you just spelled out, you, many times, dress to be different - and, you spend a lot of time considering how to put your outfits together. You continued, if others wore this sort of look, you wouldn’t….because, it would no longer be different or garner as much attention.

    If that’s how you prefer to dress, so be it. But, it certainly proves @cam’s point.

    F.E. Castleberry left a comment on 8/29/2011 at 9:37 PM:

    @Cam—Thank you for your sentiment.  I will take a moment to explain myself.  I am always myself.  I put forth a considerable amount of effort in the decisions I make in regards to what I walk out the door in.  Sporting go-to-hell looks isn’t for everyone.  If it was, I’d be sporting something else.  It is in my nature to be different.  Some days I dress to garner attention…some days I dress to be invisible—it depends on my mood.  Any affectedness you perceive is likely a figment of your imagination.

    And for what it’s worth, I never said I was going to “try” and win the Best Outfit award at The Harriman Cup. I said I “plan” to.

    Bumby left a comment on 8/29/2011 at 6:55 PM:

    Love the Jacket!!! it is a winner.

    cam left a comment on 8/29/2011 at 4:19 PM:

    @fec..i really like the outfit. why, however, would you put together a look to “try” and take the best outfit award? i think that’s where some see the affectedness of this. you should just be yourself and see what happens. all the best!

    Joey Dee left a comment on 8/29/2011 at 12:47 PM:

    I agree. FEC does things only he can get away with, and that is why we read, at least that’s why I read. That face is priceless!  I love that belt too.

    StacyfrPgh left a comment on 8/29/2011 at 11:37 AM:

    My daughter had the pleasure of attending the qualifying matches last week since a family friend was trying for the main draw. She reported that too many people looked as if they just got off the court and went right to Flushing Meadows. Her outfit was a white sun hat, gingham shirt and Bermuda shorts. In case you were wondering, our friend made it into the main draw!

    Caroline Fontenot left a comment on 8/29/2011 at 10:39 AM:

    This is why I love this blog.

    Glenn left a comment on 8/29/2011 at 10:38 AM:

    Fred less is more! Have fun at the Polo match!

    Preston left a comment on 8/29/2011 at 12:10 AM:

    Your swagger is, if I may, literally off-the-charts. Nice work.

    John left a comment on 8/28/2011 at 11:46 PM:

    I think Nic is taking it way too serious. Nic, the point is, not to be too serious. FE, as someone who attends polo matches, I agree with your comment, bring more booze and women.

    tim left a comment on 8/28/2011 at 10:42 PM:

    @ F.E.

    too shay

    Andrew left a comment on 8/28/2011 at 8:01 PM:

    I personally loved your ensemble.  If I may ask, which frames are you wearing? Thanks in advance!

    Trailer Trad left a comment on 8/28/2011 at 7:36 PM:

    Hardcore prep and proud of it! Probably your best self portrait. GO FISH!

    MGM left a comment on 8/28/2011 at 4:22 PM:

    This is a great outfit, although I am not crazy about the tie and the shirt.  I don’t think the blue tie “pops” in the right way, and I think the look would be improved with a solid colored shirt.  But the jacket, the sweater, the belt, the shorts, and the shoes all work wonderfully together.

    Richard Ross left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 7:18 PM:

    I believe the unbearable heat many of us are experiencing is because you sent us all to hell with this outfit.

    I dig the frames.

    khordkutta left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 5:04 PM:

    Ahhh, I like how the pocket square is almost camo’d in the jacket.  Didnt catch it until I enlarged the pic.

    Julien left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 4:07 PM:

    Comme le dit Christian : “Bravo Fred” !

    Joy left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 3:10 PM:

    LOL at Daniel’s comment. What if the hurricane hits?

    Daniel left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 2:13 PM:

    LOL that sneer! What happened to having fun with the clothes? Why leave all the smiling to KJP?

    Christian Bourasseau left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 11:46 AM:

    EPIC! This picture shows what preppy is! Bravo Fred!

    Pedro left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 11:34 AM:

    Don´t get out Nadal too soon, he as Jimmy Connors is the type of warrior makes the US open the grand slam of sweat and blood

    Desmond K left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 11:28 AM:

    @Tim- U was probably at a “low goal” match which can move along a little slower since the players are average.  However, the “high goal” matches produce non stop run and gun action. U should try checking out one of those.

    F.E. Castleberry left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 10:54 AM:

    @Paul—I don’t know if you have to shave your legs if you start wearing tassel loafers. I’ve never practiced that.

    @Nic—“Far too much going on” is what I’m banking on to grab the Best Outfit nod at the Cup. These social events are about having fun with clothes and each other all while enjoying the display of sport.  Two of the precepts of prep style are layering and outlandish colors/patterns. The former being no more evident in the Northeast while the latter in resort towns like Palm Beach.

    A patchwork madras blazer can come off a bit loud (an inherent trait of such a garment) if you don’t give the eye anything else to digest. Pair it with just solid color pieces and your eye is in shock—potentially disgust because it has no where else to go after ingesting the stark contrast; however, lead the eye from the large madras pattern to a another pattern of a different scale and color and the eye has somewhere to transition to while maintaining interest. Madras to chevron stripe to cable knit to club pattern to striped shirt to striped belt to solid short etc. I kept the waist down grounded in navy and brown. The accusation of “far too much going on” would certainly ring clearer had this anchor not been provided. 

    @Tim—Only two chukkas? Bring more women and booze to the tailgate.

    Paul left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 10:40 AM:

    Do I have to start shaving my legs if I start wearing those shoes?

    Nic left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 9:22 AM:

    I feel there is far too much going on. While some of the outfits on here I like, this screams trying too hard which is decidedly not preppy in the least.

    tim left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 7:37 AM:

    dope shoes! can’t beat the tassel loafers.  But seriously..who watches polo.  I could only handle two chukkas and I was out because it was SO boring.

    Braddock left a comment on 8/27/2011 at 7:25 AM:

    wow, i love it! in my opinion this is your best outfit EVER!


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